ocaml: Updates to ocaml compiler and several ocaml ports

- Update devel/ocaml to 4.14.2 [1]
- Specify runtime dependency on GNU AS as full path, this fixes
  build on armv6 - armv7 [1] [2]
- converters/ocaml-base64: Update to 3.5.1, add LICENSE, other
  improvements
- converters/ocaml-jsonm: Strip shared objects [3]
- databases/ocaml-dbm: Update to 1.3, move to gitlub, other
  improvements
- devel/menhir: Update to 20231231
- devel/ocaml-base: Unbreak non-x86 [2]
- devel/ocaml-camlp-streams: Silence patch and strip commands
- devel/ocaml-ipaddr: Update to 5.5.0
- devel/ocaml-lwt: Update to 5.7.0 [4]

*/*: Refactor with IGNORE_WITH_MYSQL

- There are multiple ports which has MYSQL options and are non-DEFAULT.
  Most of the time committers actually forget to check with the OPTION
  enabled and in some cases they are BROKEN with newr versions of mysql.
  So test with different versions of mysql and mark IGNOPRE_WITH_MYSQL
  appropriately. Due to the EOL of 5.7 this has not been checked.
- Unbreak sysutils/cfengine* with MySQL 8.0 and later
- The primary purpose of running this check is having statistics of the
  MySQL usability over MariaDB to explore the future possibility of
  shifting to MariaDB as the default as major ports upstream have moved
  their codebase to support MariaDB over MySQL.
- The following actions will also be taken after the sunset of MySQL 5.7
  If a port is broken on all instances of MySQL/MariaDB:
  - If a port has the option of multiple DB backends and MySQL is the
    default then the DEFAULT will be changed to PGSQL/SQLITE before
    2024Q1. And the OPTION will be removed before 2024Q2. If a
    MAINTAINER is aware about such cases and want to prefer PGSQL over
    SQLITE or vice versa please do so at your own accord. Otherwise
    PGSQL will be preferred over SQLITE.
  - If a port has the option of multiple DB backends and MySQL is not
    the default then the the OPTION will be removed before 2024Q1.

Approved by:	portmgr (blanket)

lang/ocaml: Update to 4.08.1

This update allows (and for some requires) to also update dependencies
to newer versions. Where possible I updated to the latest version.

The ocaml port now is MAKE_JOBS safe.

Changes to dependent ports included in this commit:

- devel/ocaml-sexplib: Rename to devel/ocaml-sexplib0 adapting to
  upstream. Update to 0.16.0
- devel/coccinelle: Update to 1.1.1, moved to github
- devel/ocaml-camlp4: Update to 4.08+1
- devel/ocaml-camomile: Use dune for build, adapt port
- devel/ocaml-cppo: Fix lib files installation [1]

databases/ocaml-mysql: Ignore with mysql 8.0

PR:		269203
Reported by:	exp-run

Remove WWW entries moved into port Makefiles

Commit b7f05445c00f has added WWW entries to port Makefiles based on
WWW: lines in pkg-descr files.

This commit removes the WWW: lines of moved-over URLs from these
pkg-descr files.

Approved by:		portmgr (tcberner)

Add WWW entries to port Makefiles

It has been common practice to have one or more URLs at the end of the
ports' pkg-descr files, one per line and prefixed with "WWW:". These
URLs should point at a project website or other relevant resources.

Access to these URLs required processing of the pkg-descr files, and
they have often become stale over time. If more than one such URL was
present in a pkg-descr file, only the first one was tarnsfered into
the port INDEX, but for many ports only the last line did contain the
port specific URL to further information.

There have been several proposals to make a project URL available as
a macro in the ports' Makefiles, over time.

databases: remove 'Created by' lines

A big Thank You to the original contributors of these ports:

  *  "Choe, Cheng-Dae" whitekid
  *  "Mahdi Mokhtari <mokhi64@gmail.com>"
  *  "Meikel Brandmeyer" <ocaml-sqlite3-port@kotka.de>
  *  <hvo.pm@xs4all.nl>
  *  <jsmith@resonatingmedia.com>
  *  <ports@c0decafe.net>
  *  Aaron Dalton <aaron@FreeBSD.org>
  *  Adam Weinberger <adamw@FreeBSD.org>
  *  Ade Lovett <ade@FreeBSD.org>
  *  Akinori MUSHA aka knu <knu@idaemons.org>
  *  Alan Snelson <Alan@Wave2.org>

Remove # $FreeBSD$ from Makefiles.

- Update to version 1.2.4
- Define LICENSE (LGPL21)

Reported by:	portscout

- Update to version 1.2.2 which is compatible with modern OCaml
- Chase redirect for MASTER_SITES and WWW: line of the pkg-descr
- Convert USE_MYSQL -> USES+=mysql and assume maintainership

- Switch to options helpers
- Add some NO_ARCHes

Approved by:	portmgr blanket

- Add USE_OCAML_CAMLP4 and USE_OCAML_TK to bsd.ocaml.mk which add
  depends on the camlp4 language and labltk ocaml modules, which are
  now in separate ports.
- Update x11-toolkits/ocaml-lablgtk2 to 2.18.3
- Update graphics/ocaml-lablgl to 1.05
- Make unison ports use USE_OCAML
- Convert ports to the new flags where needed
- Bump PORTREVISION on ports depending on ocaml-lablgtk2, those need to be
rebuilt

PR:			199845
Submitted by:		jbeich@
Differential Revision:	https://reviews.freebsd.org/D2434
Approved by:		portmgr (mat)

Make 7 ports jobs unsafe

A number of ports failed on the DragonFly package builder when
theoretically all of them should build.  They had errors in logs
indicating that was parallel building issue.  Rerunning through again
with -j1 resulted in a good build.  There were more than 7, but these
seven are the ports that I'm confident are not 100% jobs safe based on
the errors seen.

Reset maintainership.

PR:		190858
PR:		190859
PR:		190860
PR:		190861
PR:		190862
PR:		190863
PR:		190864
Submitted by:	former maintainer
Approved by:	portmgr (blanket)

Stage support

Fix NO_STAGE attribution

Add NO_STAGE all over the place in preparation for the staging support (cat:
databases)

- Update to 1.1.1

PR:             ports/168291
Submitted by:   Jyun-Yan You <jyyou@cs.nctu.edu.tw> (maintainer)

- fix auto-generated plist, bump PORTREVISION

PR:     ports/165158
Submitted by:   maintainer, jyyou at cs.nctu.edu.tw

Add ocaml-mysql 1.1.0, OCaml bindings to libmysqlclient.

PR:             ports/161034
Submitted by:   Jyun-Yan You <jyyou@cs.nctu.edu.tw>